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Looking for love?  Hoping to find your soul mate?  Maybe these dating tips will find you love in the new year. 

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When the topic of dating comes up in conversation, seems like everyone has a story filled with do’s and don’ts and plenty of advice too.  Author Neil Clark Warren cuts right to the chase with his book “How To Tell If Someone Is Worth Pursuing In Two Dates Or Less.”  Here are some of the things he says to look for when you’re trying to find your soul mate.

-Energy Level.  If you’re an early riser and they like to sleep until noon, that’s a problem.

-Ambition Level.  Match up your career goals.

-Verbal intimacy.  Make sure you’re able to share your thoughts and feelings at a level which is comfortable for both of you.

-Interests.  If you like to stay in and do crossword puzzles every night and your date wants to party and dance until dawn, forget it.

-Personal Habits.  If you’re messy, marry another messy person.

-Expectations about roles.  Make it clear what you want and what you are willing to do or not do within the relationship.  If you’re a woman who plans to quit working after getting married and your guy likes two-income living, get out of the relationship now.

-Spiritual harmony.  This is different from shared religious affiliation.  This has to do with the larger context within which you live your life.

What do you think?  Is Neil on to something or missing the mark?  What’s your best dating advice?

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